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thekrueg:

rabbitsavestheworld:

the-bluebonnet-bandit:

jackharknessday:

weavemama:

DO NOT SUPPORT SALVATION ARMY 

I can back this up. It isn’t only their shelters.

I have a family friend who worked at our local Salvation Army headquarters as a a secretary. This particular office took all the Christmas donations for children in need, put them in a warehouse, and on a designated day the staff and their friends picked through them all, taking whatever they wanted. She saw people hauling away bikes donated for specific families. Some local children had hundreds of dollars of gifts donated in their name, and on Christmas they received three cheap things, items likely not even from the person who sponsored them.

My friend quit, and I’ve not given them a dime of my money since then.

Do not give to the Salvation Army.

Do Not. Give. To. Salvation. Army

My turn.

I’m a wildfire and disaster logistics specialist.

I deal with a lot of agencies who provide disaster relief.

I used to say the Salvation Army’s disaster services were the one (literally the ONE) good thing they did.

They would come in, set up a canteen trailer, make and pass out hot coffee and donated food in a disaster, usually being one of the first agencies to get there and the last to leave.

Then I found out.

Every time they did this, regardless of if they were actually invited or deployed by the agency in charge (usually FEMA, sometimes others) they would SELF-DEPLOY. Meanjng they would just show up. Ok. That’s not TOO bad, sometimes agencies have to take initiative and get there before the red tape is sorted out. BUT. They, after they left at the end of the incident, they would send FEMA or the host agency a BILL. They used one or two paid employees (usually the driver of the truck and a supervisor); and many VOLUNTEERS, but they would bill for EVERYONE’s Labor at standard federal rates. They would bill for the food they distributed even though it was all donated by another agency or private parties. They would bill for the coffee they made and the supplies. Except they would use electricity from the shelter location, water from donations or from the shelter, and in many cases, they would get the coffee and industrial filters DONATED, but bill for them at retail prices.

Don’t FUCKING give to the Salvation Army.

The Salvation Army is also ass to the workers. A good number of people join it, naively thinking that it’s doing good, and end up leaving cynical and beaten down. The management is hostile, if not outright abusive, and demand some ridiculous hours of it lower to mid-level staff. Don’t support these people.

The idea of having to think about my life and relationship in an “Adult” way versus just like… enjoying the day by day and life is giving me anxiety lol

Which is just to say that growing up gives me anxiety lol

Having to consider a long term future and finances and stability economically is grossly stressful when I am still operating on this mindset that I might not make it past 25 even though I havent been suicidal for years??

I just never got past the mindset of living in the short term and am realizing that like… I’m becoming/am?? A grown ass adult and cant do that shit anymore

I know ppl my age buying houses and getting pregnant and married and I’m just like??? I dont even understand insurance what the hell

I dont know if I have dreams for the future because when I was younger I never really thought I’d make it this far so every new year is just like a shocker/celebration and now all of a sudden I have to face thinking about my future and a shared future and it’s like I just dont know how to do it???

Being an adult/in my 20’s is scary man i feel like a kid but i’m not and i gotta step my pussy up several degrees and also go back to therapy lol

lyjerria:

as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

the2headedcalf-moved:

being in your early twenties is like [grocery shopping alone] [having instant noodles for dinner] [remembering random details about that one friend you haven’t spoken to in five years] [feeling overwhelming guilt for every purchase that isn’t strictly “necessary”] [having midday naps] [finding out through facebook that the girl who was mean to you in high school has a husband and a baby] [falling a little in love with every stranger on public transport] [pretending you’re not afraid of being alone] [wondering when you’ll feel like a fully realized person] [listening to bands you liked in middle school] [blinking and it’s suddenly december] [failing to imagine yourself ten years from now] [feeling like you’re running out of time]

Whenever I come back to this hell hole your tumblr is the first place I go to make sure you’re doing ok

Asked by s-ahfty

New tumblr doesnt alert me/have a separate notif for messages so im just seeing this now cuz im never on anymore but dawhhh bud 😘😘 im doing well, growing out of tumblr which progressively got shittier and shittier w its updated anyway lol. Hope youre doing alright too, ya badass motorcycle riding gay! 😜

derinthescarletpescatarian:
“christophoronomicon:
“ batmanisagatewaydrug:
“ julad:
“ thisdiscontentedwinter:
“ salparadisewasright:
“ sapphicdalliances:
“ jonpertwee:
“ hamfistedbunvendor:
“ jonpertwee:
“I feel like this would be a slippery slope...

derinthescarletpescatarian:

christophoronomicon:

batmanisagatewaydrug:

julad:

thisdiscontentedwinter:

salparadisewasright:

sapphicdalliances:

jonpertwee:

hamfistedbunvendor:

jonpertwee:

I feel like this would be a slippery slope towards making it illegal for people to choose to not vote.

that’s already how it is in australia

That’s just so fucked up. :(
Do certain medical conditions exempt you?

?????? why is it be fucked up to have compulsory voting? that’s the way it is in most democratic countries? it’s a part of being a citizen, like paying taxes and obeying speed limits? the fine for not voting is only like $50 and because of the compulsory voting law, our country bends over backwards to make it accessible: it’s always on a weekend, lasts most of the day, and is set up at schools and community centers so there’s one within easy reach of almost everybody. you can also mail your ballot or vote early if you’ll be out of the country on the day. like, IT’S EASY TO VOTE, and the penalty isn’t even that ridiculous. i don’t understand why the usa doesn’t have this, except obviously it would make it harder to literally stop minorities from voting.

I think we Americans tend to forget that a lot of other countries don’t actively work to make it harder to vote.

Adding to this here, in Australia you don’t have to vote. Or, more precisely, there’s no way they can tell if you ruined your ballot. You have to turn up, get your name marked off, but you can put a line through the ballot if you don’t think any of the candidates are worth voting for. Or do this: 

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Or this: 


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Or this: 

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You have get your name crossed off (if you don’t want to wear the fine), but you don’t have to make your vote counted if you’re opposed to it. 

And it is so, so easy to vote. Stuck at work or on holidays? That’s fine. Do a postal vote.  Stuck in hospital? That’s fine. They’ll go to you. Stuck in an old people’s home and can’t get around? Again, they’ll go to you. It’s amazing to me that it’s so hard for so many Americans to actually vote. If you make it compulsory, than at least the government is obligated to provide you with the means to vote. 

And look, I get it. Sometimes I don’t want to vote either. But I suck it up, I walk three minutes down the street, and I hope that this year they’re selling lamingtons again. Oh, and I buy a democracy sausage, which, even if all the candidates suck, makes the effort of turning up pretty worthwhile. 

ALSO, you can see even on the fucked up ballots that you NUMBER CANDIDATES IN ORDER OF PREFERENCE. There’s no need to calculate whether I would be throwing away my vote on the candidate that I most agree with if they’re not from a major party. I can say, I want that independent person to get in, but if not them, give me Big Party A, and if not them, that minor party person is still better that Big Party B, and I’m not giving any preference to the Lunatic Fringe Party.

Our system certainly has some issues still, but I can show up to somewhere nearby, line up for a few minutes (if at all), vote exactly in line with my values (on paper, leaving a paper trail that can be recounted), and then buy a sausage and some home made cupcakes on my way out.

A country’s voting system matters a hell of a lot and every citizen deserves one that makes it easy to vote and results in a government that is representational and accountable.

And by the way, one time I had a bad asthma flare-up on Election Day and didn’t make it to my polling station. I got my fine in the mail, I filled out the form explaining why I couldn’t vote, no more fine. I would rather have, you know, expressed my preference for who should run my country, but they were cool with the fact that I couldn’t do it that day.

“oh no, what if people actually have to participate in picking the government officials who will impact their lives” jesus christ

For the last time, for everyone who still doesn’t understand: not voting is not a tool of resistance, it’s a tool of surrender.

Still can’t get over the “is there an exception for disabilities” question. Do you… think disabled people should vote less? I don’t understand where this question comes from?

arandomthot:
“I feel attacked
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arandomthot:

I feel attacked

lesbianrey:

framing sex as one of the basic human needs is just wrong and coercive. you will not die without sex- sex is not a right. you are never entitled to sex the same way that you are entitled to food, water, oxygen, etc. it’s this mentality that fuels rape culture tbh.

quietlydiabolic:

thenewmi6:

the oft unspoken truth of society is that the line between quirky and cringy is often how conventionally attractive you are

and eccentric vs weird is often how wealthy you are

dream job?

Asked by Anonymous

fireproofs:

i simply do not dream of labor

I miss and want queer platonic relationships!!

I want a close intimate friendship where we hold hands and cuddle sleep and appreciate each other and platonically love each other with some degree of attraction and mutual understanding of appreciation!!

And nobody better come on here with that “isnt that just friends” bullshit cuz for you sure! Different terms, same meaning maybe.

And I want it with this one friend but we’ll probably never be that! :(

chand-ki-roshni:

cosmic-noir:

scarabsi:

katsplanet:

neoyi:

renefer:

madamdoesnothing:

randompandemic:

this whole discussion about a Mulan life-action baffles me. Like… I love the fun with Mushu and all but? Why do we need a Disney remake of the movie when there is

a pretty much epic

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beautiful

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actually Chinese version

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with great characters

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and Mulan’s more accurate story

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readily available??? 

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Since 2009??

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Well I know what I am watching now

UPDATE: I just watched this and I have so many emotions. Seriously, check this out

OOH! On my list!

i didnt know this existed!!! ok

I’ve failed all my followers for not letting them know about this immediately. I’m sorry you guys missed out.

I NEED IT

http://www.veoh.com/watch/v19697192DZSkejpc

Here is a link to watch it free online with English subtitles.

Just as a warning, it is a little violent, some horses are killed during the battles, and there is a scene where Wentai cuts open his wrist. It is a very good movie, I just finished watching it and would recommend everyone watch it.

the-bright-path-deactivated2021:

lesbiancapybara:

Actually butch lesbians can be gentle and kind and comforting to be around and presenting as more masculine/androgynous doesn’t make us inherently rough or angry and depicting all butches as such is lesbophobia. This goes especially for trans butches and butches of color btw

Some of the kindest people I’ve ever met were butches

Its the assumption of toxic masculinity/gender roles

romcommunist:

*cups my own face tenderly* its gonna be okay babe