You know what’s super not cool? When your friends jokingly point out a flaw you have without realizing that it’s an actual insecurity you have or used to have. Like, thank you for pointing out how flat I am. As if I didn’t know. These are not things that bother me anymore for the most part, but they’re not things that make me feel wonderful or that I’d want to hear all the time. Joke about it once or twice, fine. But stop bringing it up all the time. I know I don’t have an ass. I know I’m flat chested. Do you know how long it took for me to get to the point I am now of being okay with it? I know I have scars. Stop asking me when everyone is around.
How would you like it if I always pointed out your flaws?
Yeah, you wouldn’t.
It would just be cool if people stopped doing that shit.